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1. It is very easy to meet and have fun with couples in the club, but you will very rarely meet single ladies on the swinging scene. This is not a bad thing as in this scene, 99% of people are looking for instant, uncomplicated fun, not a long term relationship.

2. Just because a lady is in the club and is dressed erotically, that is not an open licence for a guy to grope or mollest her. There are designated groping areas where you can try your luck if, and only if, that lady goes there first.

3. To be successful with couples it is important to be smartly dressed, and to be especially careful about personal hygene. Ladies can spend hours getting ready for a night at the club, and are easilly insulted if approached by scruffy or unclean individuals. Have a bath or a shower before you set out, or if you need to, bring a towel and you can shower here in the Spa. As it can get quite warm when the action starts, many ladies also appreciate the finer touches such as after shave or anti-perspirant/deoterant to be used as well.

5. The majority of couples insist on a policy of safe sex, which is sensible for everyone. Don't miss out and always have one in your pocket. If you forget to bring any with you, we do sell them at the bar.

6. Don't shrink into a corner. Chat to couples just as you would to anyone else. Don't ignore the male partner, he would not be here if he were the jealous sort. It is important for couples that they both have an enjoyable evening. With couples on the "threesome/moresome" scene, the guys love to watch their partner enjoying herself.

7. Be aware that although some couples like to chat and get to know people that they want to go further with, other couples prefer total anonymity, and will will have sex quite happily without even talking to you. Careful judgement is needed to assess what the correct course of action should ever be.

8. By all means make friends with other single guys at the club, but always be aware of the perception that other people have of how you go about this. A large number of men in a group can look very intimidating to a lady, especially if they look like a rugby team, eager to land a tackle. Try to look at things "from the outside, looking in" and ask yourself, if you were a lady, would you feel safe approaching such a situation?

9. Most single guys succeed by going into the areas where singles and couples mix, see what is going on, and what they fancy, and politely asking if they can join in. Please remember that "No" means NO! and once you have been refused, do not follow, or ask again.

10. Most couples like to be watched, even if they are in a Couples-Only area. If they are in such an area, you must never touch or be tempted to join in, even if invited. A couple that wants singles to join in must move to an area not restricted to Couples-Only.

11. Remember that the aisles are for people to walk up and down to get from A to B. This especially applies if you are watching couples in the Couples-Only alcove. The aisle here is not a terrace in a stadium and you will not endear yourself to a couple if you stand in their way or obstruct their progress.

12. When watching a couple, remember that others might be noticing you. You will benefit from appearing to be erotically aroused in a reasonably civilised way, but you will not do yourself any favours by appearing to be a desparate leacherous pervert.

13. If you see ladies playing with each other, wherever they are, this is probably pre-arranged and they usually won't want anyone else to join them. Just stand back and enjoy the view and if you do get an invitation to join them, which sometimes happens, you will be a lucky man indeed. Should another guy be invited, DON'T take it as meaning that it's now open house, and that you have a free reign to join in, YOU DON'T.

14. Try not to give the impression of being desparate, aggressive or pushy. Nothing puts ladies off more, or is more certain to upset other men. Don't push your way through crowds, or try to force ladies into doing anything that they don't want to. There is always a tomorrow, and bad memories of you will linger for a long time in the minds of people that you would rather be friends with.

15. Try to communicate with the couples who you are getting on well with, to find out what their limits and preferences are. Not all ladies like everything that you do. Pain, ejaculaton, and "alternative penetration" are all subjects which everyone has different standards and views on, and what you might think is OK, may be offensive or undesirable to your potential partner.

16. You will be given a tour of the club when you first join, and it will be explained to you which areas are open to you and which areas are restricted. Our staff are very sympathetic and understanding and are happy to advise should you have any questions or problems.

If you have taken on board all that is written here then you should fare well at Club Xtasia. If you think that you can cut corners or ignore this advice then the time you spend at Club Xtasia will be short.

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The Single Guy scene at Club Xtasia is heaven however some single guys fare better than others. All the advice set out below has great merit and you would be well served to take notice of it all. Try to remember that the rewards are great and if you do things correctly and behave accordingly then the scene is your oyster.

Swinging Couples and Single Fem.‘s frequent Club Xtasia on a Friday Night looking to spice up their lives with some uncomplicated sex. Nine times out of ten this will include a single guy or two. For the most part Couples will always look to invite a guy that is smart, polite, non pushy and of course sexy. If you love yourself and plainly so then you will be left on the sidelines.

This is rarely about looks or cock size its more about how nice a person you are. As the old saying goes, if they like you then they will invite you. The guys that have it down pat are active all night with a multitude of couples and single fem’s. Those that don’t spend most of their time getting change for the slot machine!. Dont be one of them.

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