Couples, Swingers, Advice, Etiquette, Xtasia Swingers Club Near Birmigham West Midlands

1. We feel that couples need to be in a stable relationship to prosper in the Swinging Scene. For the adventurous, our club is a very stimulating and erotic experience, that can enhance your relationship, but there are things which need to be overcome, jealously being the hardest. so before you come along for the first time, you both need to discuss your fantasies and expectations, and how far you are prepared to go. Be sure that you have a method of signaling to your partner when your limits have been reached.

2. When you finally decide to visit a Swingers Club, you will understandably feel very nervous about coming along for your first visit. This is normal, and most people felt that way on their first time, but it is far less intimidating than meeting someone for the first time from a contact ad. in a magazine, newspaper or the internet. It's usually down to the stepping into the unknown and the fear that ladies have of being forced into doing things that they are not ready for, that is at the root of the nerves. There are no need for worries at our club. Here you can enjoy a night out at a luxury night club with broadminded liberated and friendly people. Most couples go home amazed at what a great sexy night out they have had, and their state of arousal lingers on for several days thereafter.

3. There is absolutely no pressure to get involved in any way at the club. You are free to wander around the club and see what is going on, but only by making a conscious decision to do so will you become involved yourselves. There are areas which involve various levels of participation carefully arranged throughout the club for you to explore.

4. On your first visit to Club-Xtasia, we will give you a short tour of the club, and we will explain what goes on in each of the area within the club. It only takes a few minutes, and after that you will be free to make a more thorough exploration for yourselves.

5. We suggest that the Ladies decide upon the level of involvement that a couple engages in, and that the guys don't push this limit any further, as it could spoil the evening for both of you. Most ladies eventually enjoy the night more than the men, given time to "grow into it".

6. Do not drink too much in your efforts to relax. People tend to drink to give themselves confidence, but in our environment this does not work. Drunken people are unattractive to others, no matter how physically appealing they might be. Not only will you be shunned by others, but also, alcohol will impair your own performance. In a worst case scenario, you might also be asked to leave the club. In any case if you arrive at the club in a drunken state, you will not be allowed in. Should you arrive slightly "tipsy", the staff will allow you in, but your alcoholic drinks will be kept safe and out of use for you in reception, to save your state from getting any worse. Should drunkenness be a recurring problem, your membership will be cancelled.

7. The majority of couples insist on a policy of safe sex, which is sensible for everyone. Don't miss out and always have one with you, and remember to introduce them at the appropriate time. If you forget to bring any with you, we do sell them at the bar.

8. If you attend the club on a Mixed night and do not want to interact with the single guys, just use the Couples-Only areas in the club. Singles are not allowed to follow you into these areas, even if invited in by others. Don't forget that there are always at least twice as many couples as there are singles, so don't worry about

being overawed.

10. For ladies to dress erotically is not compulsory, but we have noticed that it does enhance your chances of having a successful and enjoyable evening. Please feel free for ladies to dress as bare as they dare, or whatever feels comfortable. Similarly, ladies appreciate guys who also make an effort, so it is wise for the guys also take care over their appearance. Please remember that if you are wearing a "daring" outfit, please keep it covered by a coat whilst walking outside so as not to offend or provoke our neighbours.

All you now need to do is to pluck up the courage and come along to the club.